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09/15/2003
Do you ever feel...you know, not so fresh?
Progress! My period began today, 35 days after my D&C. It hurts. A lot.
I can't tell if it's worse than a normal period, as I'm told post-miscarriage cycles often are, or if it's just the absence of ibuprofen that's making it seem that way. Either way, the result is the same: I am an evil-tempered, foul-mouthed booby trap of a girl just waiting to explode all over some poor hapless passerby.
I hope Paul's up on his guerrilla tactics.
Even though I'm supposed to wait until the Sunday after my period begins, I started the pill today. I decided, with my extensive body of medical knowledge, that one day surely couldn't make much of a difference. (No, and don't call me Shirley or I'll tear your goddamn throat out.)
I just couldn't stand the thought of being put off by yet another week. I could tell Paul was debating whether to object — he made the wise decision not to, and may live to fight another day. But I make no promises.
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Comments (297)
i have not seen my period as yet and i had sex alot this month and by boyfriend cum in me and i need to know if i am pregnant. please help me
Posted by: trina at Nov 29, 2005 10:58:53 AM
i have had sex alot and dont know if i am pregant but my belly is getting big
Posted by: at Nov 29, 2005 3:36:47 PM
I missed my period last month and it still haven't come on yet. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. So can I still be pregnant or could it be something else?
Posted by: Shuntae at Apr 19, 2006 4:43:46 PM
Hey Everybody i dunno but i think when i piss it hurts now and my peroid didn't come yet like its been a month but my peroids come late sometimes i dunno bout i mgiht have to take a test or something i am just really scared ppl will say stuff or my family will kick me out or something...welll tell me some signs gotta go buhbyez
Posted by: AmAnDa at May 31, 2006 12:02:40 AM
hey i get 5days in a peroid.last month i got two days.so i want to know iampregantrnot?how can i know when i am pregant .and what shoud i do to not get pregant.can u till me some home tips like eating some fruits'tonot get pregant. i can not go to the docter.how can itest in my home.
Posted by: anu at Jun 30, 2006 5:04:10 AM
I havent had sex in two months and im suppose to get my period today but it usually comes like 2 days before the 28th day and about last week my boyfriend fingered me but right before that he had some of his sperm on his hand and wiped it off could i be pregnat
Posted by: kelly at Jul 3, 2006 5:07:40 PM
i have all my normal symptoms of PMS, but my period is late and its NEVER been late before. me and my boyfriend always use a condom and im on birth control, but i was also on other pills that can apparently 'weaken' my BC pill. im so scared, please help me.
Posted by: kyla at Jul 19, 2006 2:05:03 PM
my last period was june 2 or 4 of 2006 and i have been having sex every weeken but we did the withdraw every time we don't use a comdon and im not on any BC pills and it has been 48 days since my last period and the only sign i have had of being pregnant is my stomach geting a little big and my brust are a little bigger than usuall so please help me on a scale form 1/10 can i be pregnant with 10 being a strong chance. thanks
Posted by: krystal at Jul 22, 2006 4:40:07 AM
ok...my boyfriend and i had sex 2 week before my period...we had sex on the 14 of july and my period is due on the 4 of Augs ....could i get pregnant??...cause i really don't want to be im only 18 but my boyfriend want to have a child so i need help...plzz
Posted by: emma at Jul 22, 2006 7:56:48 PM
Um yeah well i am on the pill but me and my boyfriend has not been using a condom and he cums in me all the time i dont know if i am pregnant or not i have really really bad cramps i have never felt this much pain in cramps i was cryin it hurt so bad and i get very very dizzy when i wake up in the morning and stand up or from layin down thenstandin up and i cry alot like when me and my boyfriend agure i cry like for hour or less maybe then i am very moody my boyfriend says i am being a bitch then i am nice to him then a bitch i dont know for sure please just tell me do you think i am???
Posted by: kodi at Jul 24, 2006 9:24:00 PM
ive been pessin up on my birth control pills and ive been havin unprotected sex a lot with my boyfriend ,,, today i woke up all bloody then i put a tampon in thinkin i was on my period adn bout 3 hrs later i took it out and it had no blood on it adn i still aing bleeding could that be a sigh of a miscarriage but i havent took no pregnacy test and im still takin my pills ???
Posted by: samantha at Aug 3, 2006 4:31:04 AM
I statred my period last month on july 4 at the end of the day. my boyfriend and I couldnt wait so we had sex right before i got off, so I was still on my period. But the thing is that my man and I had sex right after I got off too! It's the 3rd of next month and I should start my period. But I have no signs that my period is gonna come like usual. We kinda have sex like 4 times a day and we never use protection. but I don't know if I'm pregant or not... I hope I am though... we both do. but I don't know if I am I throw up, but its like spit and not the real thing and my back hurts most of the time and i get light headed easy. I took a test but it came up negative. Did I do it wrong??? I need advice. HELP!!!
Posted by: Felicia at Aug 3, 2006 6:30:53 PM
Hi well im 20 in 3 days and i have a problem. ok, my period usually comes between the 14 and 17 of every month, well in june it was 10 days late and lasted 4 days. i waited and waited 4 it 2 come last month but it didnt. my bf and i have been having unprotected sex and he came in me every time, he came in me twice every time we did it. and thats hows its been all of july. ive been tired and hungry more than normal, i come home from work and eat and sleep. and ive been having nausea but havent thrown up, my back aches alot. well it aug now and my (period) came yesterday. what is wrong with me? could i be pregnant? am i pregnant? tiffany
Posted by: tiffany at Aug 4, 2006 11:23:40 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:39 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:49 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:54 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:55 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:55 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:56 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:56 AM
i get realy bad period pains and i cant do anything they hurt so bad that they make me cry i never had a pain this bad befor. i try all the pain killers and they dont work wot other things can help me get rid of the pain.
Posted by: char at Aug 9, 2006 8:51:57 AM
how can you tell if you are preganat on the pill? will you miss a period or will you still get one? I am a mother of a 4 year old and i know what to expect but im very nervous becuse i dont want any more children! Please help. Also if you are on the pill and take an at home test will the pill alter the results! i need to know asap. thank you
Posted by: Rachael at Aug 10, 2006 2:54:10 PM
I haven't had my period since the first week of june and i've taken a test but it was negative. I had the feeling of my period getting ready to start the first week of august but 5 days later it went away. Am I pregnant or is it something other than that???
Posted by: at Aug 12, 2006 3:46:09 PM
I haven't had my period since the first week of june and i've taken a test but it was negative. I had the feeling of my period getting ready to start the first week of august but 5 days later it went away. Am I pregnant or is it something other than that???
Posted by: at Aug 12, 2006 3:46:12 PM
I DON'T HAVE REGULAR PERIODS AT ALL. ONCE EVERY 2 THROUGH 6 MONTHS. HOW DO I KNOW WHEN TO TRY AND GET PREGNANT.....CAN SOMEON HELP ME WITH AN ANSWER
Posted by: CODY at Aug 14, 2006 12:42:21 PM
i've had sex with my boyfriend alot since we've been together & he asked me if i was pregant and the first time i wasn't cause i came on my period but i've haven't had it this month i had it twice last month but none this month what's going on? my stomach has been hurting and i stay hungry. i eat at school all day and when i get home i eat then sleep. my stomach hurts all day if i don't eat. it just hurts it feels like i'm going to get sick but i don't.what's wrong could i be pregant? or not? i need some advice. i don't need to be cause i play softball and i'm only 15 yrs old i'm not ready for a baby yet.we don't use protection anymore cause he just takes them off and throws them away before he nuts everywhere.so what's the use. advice please.
Posted by: rachel at Aug 19, 2006 4:28:44 PM
I Havent Came On My Period Yet, Its Over A Week Late. My Stomach Has Been Cramping 4 The Last 2 Weeks Like Im Bout 2 Come On But It Hasnt Come Yet. I Took A Home Pregnancy Test And It Came Back Negative. My Chest Is Swollen And Tender. I Havent Had Any Symptoms Of Morning Sickness. Am I Pregnant Or Not?
Posted by: at Aug 19, 2006 10:52:19 PM
im gonna be a daddy im so happy i cant use my legs because of a car crash but this has made everything ok
Posted by: scott at Aug 21, 2006 12:00:06 AM
well me and my boyfriend usually have sex about 3or 4 times a week soemtiems we use condoms but sometimes we just forget n i havent gottne my period like usual i took the test but it was negative any advice??
Posted by: yolanda at Aug 21, 2006 5:49:38 PM
well me and my boyfriend usually have sex about 3or 4 times a week soemtiems we use condoms but sometimes we just forget n i havent gottne my period like usual i took the test but it was negative any advice??
Posted by: yolanda at Aug 21, 2006 5:49:39 PM
I missed my period last month and it still haven't come on yet. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. So can I still be pregnant or could it be something else?
Posted by: at Aug 22, 2006 3:45:16 PM
IM A DAY LATE ON PERIOD AND THIS LAST MONTH I BEEN HAVEIN SEX LIKE EVERYDAY!!I THINK IM PREGNANT WHAT CAN I DO TO TELL OR TO MAKE MY PERIOD COME I DONT WANT TO GO TO NO DOCTOR OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT SO PLZZ HELP!!
Posted by: ERIKA at Aug 22, 2006 6:13:56 PM
ok............ my boyfriend is in the army. the last time we had sex was in April, and then he left for training. I've always had irregular periods. when he left I didn't get my period until mid June. It was normal, it lasted about 4 days. It's been 2 months since my last period. I haven't had sex since he left. Could I be pregnant? Even though I got my period in mid June????? Because I read that you can't be pregnant and have a period because of some hormone that the body produces when you're pregnant.
Posted by: Lillian at Aug 22, 2006 7:41:53 PM
i was fingered really hard, and started bleeding could i be pregnant?
Posted by: Jessica at Aug 23, 2006 8:09:18 PM
My doctor switched my bc pill from yasmin to yaz. this is the first month i'v taken it and i started taken my reminder pills on wednesday and before i would start on like either thursday or friday when i used to take yasmin. well needless to say i never started and today is saturday and i start my new pack tomorrow. i took a pregnancy test and it was negative. so i don't know whats wrong. hope im not pregnant. please give me advise. me and my husband r not ready
Posted by: missy at Aug 26, 2006 1:23:35 PM
um..... im 15 and i had unprotected sex 3 times in july and each time my bf came in me everytime. ive been tired and been feeling sick really just having all pregnancy symtoms except for throwin up i was 2 days late in july and then in august i had unprotected sex again and my period was 4 days late and having all pregnancy symptoms but stomach has gotton big and ive been really tired. i came on and its been knda of heavy then it will stop for and hour then start back. am i pregnant? please help me
Posted by: Quita at Aug 26, 2006 8:37:27 PM
I'm 15. Me and my boyfriend haven't actually had sex, but we came close. I'm worried that i might be pregnant only because i haven't been that close before and don't really know if a guy can feel if he's about to precum. If he didn't know and he did precum what are my chances of being pregnant? He wasn't in me though. I haven't had my period this month, but it only happened a few weeks ago. I have irregular periods too, like 2 months ago i started having my periods like the first week of every month, but i just don't know and i probably worrie too much, but someone has to in this relationship.
Posted by: alexis at Aug 30, 2006 1:15:23 PM
well my name is jasmine and i had sex wit muh bf like about 3weeks ago in aug. and the condom broke could i b pregnant...and i had muh period last month and now me and my bf has broke up i havent had any sym. but my back is alwayz hearting what could it b...and what should i tell my new bf.
Posted by: JASMINE at Sep 1, 2006 2:06:03 PM
last month i missed my period... but i've never had sex.. im still a virgin... whats wrong with me?
Posted by: sarai at Sep 2, 2006 12:47:01 PM
I am almost two weeks late i have a fairly regular period every 30 days I dont have morning sickness signs i took a test but it came out negative did i test too soon or could something else be wrong
Posted by: Hope at Sep 4, 2006 9:35:58 PM
i am two weeks late and i haven't done anything to get pagnent. so whats wrong with me??/
Posted by: marie at Sep 6, 2006 6:31:56 PM
i had sex 3 days ago my boyfriend came in me and my breast are really sore and i have pains in my lower stomach is it to soon and am i pregnant?
Posted by: sharika at Sep 6, 2006 6:40:45 PM
It is now Sept 7th 2006, and I'm expecting my period in about 3 days. Ususally I start to get PMS symptoms about a week before my period starts and my breasts start to gradually get tender. This time, however, I have no symptoms and my breasts are not sore at all. In addition, I have been getting this thick clear discharge and I have been very fatigued and I want to eat all the time. My back is always sore and I get headaches very easily. I know it's too early to take a pregnancy test, but is it possible that I could be pregnant???
Posted by: Erin at Sep 7, 2006 6:48:50 PM
i really need some advice. I am only 16 years old and 1 day after my period me nd my boyfriend had sex but we did not use anything he also cummed in me. 2 weeks later i was feeling sick and weak also i have had a headache 4 days none stop i always get very light headed at time. i am not due on my period for another 2 weeks. i am scared i may be pregnant. i have no support and i am affraid that if i am pregnant i will not be able to look after a child. could any 1 please help me?
Posted by: unknown at Sep 7, 2006 9:54:30 PM
ok, here's how it went, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 3 times. The first time was in June and the other 2 times was in July. I came on my period 1 day late in July and 10 days late in august. my period was very heavy and it only lasted like 4 days. my stomach is hurting a lot and my lower back is starting to hurt. i took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. what should i do because i don't think i should be pregnant. i've been having a lot of really bad headaches and i've been sleeping alot lately. i hope i'm not pregnant.
Posted by: denisha at Sep 7, 2006 10:25:11 PM
My doctor put me on the pill that makes you have a period every three months. He told me that I would have a little spotting, but i have actually had my period, except its brown, and its been more than a week. Is there any way that I am pregnant?
Posted by: confused at Sep 8, 2006 7:59:16 AM
hi, i am 18 yrs old...i recently used the 'pull-out' method and he came out of me...i have period pains but i think ive have missed a few days and i havent started yet...ive been worrying ... he also pressured me into it. i kept saying for him to use a condom but he wouldnt..can u help me?
Posted by: at Sep 10, 2006 6:21:18 PM
I got my period twice last month But i think it was cause...my birthcontrol patch was messed up...Is there anyway i could be pregnant....cause i am late for it this month???????????????
Posted by: Jessica at Sep 14, 2006 3:41:24 PM
i have my left breast that is hurting me i didn't have sex wiz anyone and this is the first time that it hurts me is it breast cancer? or what's wrong wiz me plzzzzzzz tell me
thx
Posted by: at Sep 15, 2006 2:26:20 PM
i ended my period on wed. that saturday me and my boyfriend had sex twice that day. I was soon thinking that i was prengnat because i was feeling the same way i did on my last 2 pregnancies. Then out of the blue i got my period a week later. thats not even a whole month whats wrong with me, am i prengnant or not
Posted by: christina Johnson at Sep 17, 2006 2:46:56 PM
Hey,
Ive been dizzy alot ... Ive been weak and tired ... I feel something in the pitt of my stomach ... i have nausea at times ... ive been having alot of mod swings ... Ive gotten thick and my stomach gotten a little bigger and hard and hard at the buttom of my stomach ... I don't know whatz wrong with me??? I am i pregnant??? But they say your breast get's tender or sore but my breast hasn't...does that mean iam not pregnant????
Posted by: Evelise at Sep 17, 2006 10:03:43 PM
Can i still be pregnant if me and my bf had sex 3 times w/ out protection and then i got my period around the time i was supposed to get it but it was normal the first 2 days but then it was really light the next day and then almost nothing the 4th day and i usually get my period 4 5 days?? And i have been having backaches and having to pee a lot, clumsy, emotional, and i took a preg test 2 days before i got my per. but it came out negative ....could i still be pregnant? when should i take another test or go see a dr.? the waiting is driving me nuts!!!
Posted by: Anonymous at Sep 19, 2006 5:43:08 PM
okay so my boyfriend and i were having sex and we had a condom and everything but when he pulled out we noticed the condom broke. he called his step mom and everythin and she said i was going to be okay. all of his nasty stuff was all over the floor and like dripping out of me. so i went to pee but i should be getting my period any day now and im afraid im pregnant. im only 15 and i play basketball, softball, and soccer and i cant be pregnant. my mom would kick me out and i just cant be. is there any advice? i really need some. ohh and another thing everyone i talk to says im okay and my period could come late because im stressing over it. but im scared
Posted by: bk at Sep 19, 2006 8:54:39 PM
i have had unprotected sex a lot this month, i took a test and it came back positive but i am having cramps like im getting my period, but im nauseus and my breasts are sore, could it have just been a false positive?
Posted by: addy at Sep 22, 2006 8:22:47 PM
I havent had my oeriod for the last 8 months and i dont know whats wrong with me.Can u help??
Posted by: amy at Sep 23, 2006 6:21:11 AM
hi....my period was to come 5 sep and its 19 days later and my tummy is a bit bigger i cant get in my trouses and i feel more tired now then i ever did in my life my i pregant please help me.i scared to go doctors
Posted by: tamz at Sep 24, 2006 4:16:51 PM
my bf and i had unprotected loads over w/end i started bleeding so i thought my period had come but it was really light could i be pregnant
Posted by: at Sep 25, 2006 10:31:30 AM
no matter how scared you are you need to see a doctor or nurse about your worries over late/no periods they can help and will not tell anyone.it is best to be safe than sorry.as well as using no form of contraceptive you risk getting stds.you need to look after your bodies.if your bf won't use a condom then he can't be that bothered about you and your health as well as his own.they is always a risk of getting pregnant or catching a std without using contraceptive.don't do it on your own get help asap.
Posted by: at Sep 25, 2006 12:21:46 PM
last month i missed my period... but i've never had sexim still a virgin... whats wrong with me?
Posted by: NICOLE at Sep 25, 2006 10:58:58 PM
Me and my boyfriend have had sex 4 times since my last period. We've used a condom every time and it's never broken. I'm not on birth control either. My periods aren't really regular but I haven't had my period at all this month. I keep feeling like my throat is closing and I feel like I'm gonna get sick. I'm extremely worried I might be pregnant. I'm only 16 and my friends keep telling me that the more I think about it the sicker I'll make myself but I just need to know. Please someone help me.
Posted by: KC at Sep 25, 2006 11:57:17 PM
If a guy cums inside of you and right after you pee [take a piss], does that mean u peed everything out and is not pregnant?
Posted by: Amelia at Sep 26, 2006 4:57:08 PM
when do your breast get tender during pregnancy?
Posted by: tamika at Sep 26, 2006 9:41:38 PM
Too many of these post are from ridiculously young girls. Girls, if you don't know these very simple things about sex, then you're not educated enough about sex to be having sex. Yeah, now I sound like a total square, but so? At least i'm not knocked up at 15 and having to leave high school for the glamourous world of single parenthood and poverty. (Sarcasm)
PS. If you're truely a virgin, and you even think you might be pregnant, then you must be the Virgin Mary... Sigh... Don't they teach Sex-ed in schools anymore?
Posted by: at Sep 28, 2006 10:45:50 AM
Girls I have been there done that. I am 21 almost 22 & I have been thru it. If a guy doesn't respect your wishes or want to use protection then you don't need to be with him or give him a second thought! Guys will tell you anything to get what they want. I have a wonderful guy now & about to be married & now I know how a guy is supposed to treat you. We both wish we had waited for each other. When I was younger I thought that was sooo stupid but then I realized that all those guys just cared about themselves & only wanted to be around me when they wanted to have sex. I found out the way some of them talked about me afterward & trust me it wasn't nice. I used to think it wouldn't bother me but it did & I didn't start having sex til I was 20 so think about how it will affect you when you are younger. If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to make him use protection & educate yourself on sex. I am only saying this because I care & I wish I would've listened to other people.
Posted by: at Sep 28, 2006 3:59:14 PM
It's true, if you don't know the basics about sex and birth control, you shouldn't be having sex. Let aunt Sonia set the record straight: You cannot pee out sperm; those are two different holes. You can get pregnancy tests at the drugstore. If you get a positive pregnancy test, you should assume you're pregnant. If your test was positive but you feel like you're getting your period, that's because you can get period-type cramps when you first get pregnant. Yes, you can get pregnant even if he pulls out. Thinking about birth control and pregnancy is something that should be done before you have sex. Read up and get some information first so you know what you're getting into. Best of luck to all of you.
Posted by: Sonia at Sep 28, 2006 10:55:31 PM
am i pregnant, my partner had cummed up me about 9 times and i had finished taking the pill on wednesday and we had sex on the thursday nite and day.
Posted by: Katie at Sep 30, 2006 8:30:33 AM
ive been having sex everyday almost but my bf doesn't cum in me he takes it out right before he does..but ive been feeling sick latley and ive been eating more than usaul and i sleep everyday during the day now,i had my period last month but im not due for this one yet..but am i showing signs of being pregnant..im so scared im only 15 and i got a life in front of me and my mother would kill me if she knew ive already had sex ,can u please give me some advice,please!
Posted by: andrea at Sep 30, 2006 4:46:00 PM
My periods seem to be getting worse more painful and irregular, this month my nipples were extra extra sensitive. Last month I was eight days late, now I am two days waiting, I suffer so bad from bloating, I SEEM TO ALWAYS PUT ON SO MUCH WEIGHT when my period is due, I also crave sugar and I am double double hungry constantly. I bleed so heavily, and get so much water retention. I cant take much more i get anxiety attac ks evry month when I know I am due? I am 34 and not on the pill, I ave four small fibroids and pos. What natural medicine can I take
Posted by: Joanna at Oct 1, 2006 5:15:46 PM
i have missed my period but i have took a test and it came up no but i have been having problems with my insides what could it be?
Posted by: emma at Oct 1, 2006 5:31:10 PM
i had my period around the 20th of sept. it lasted only 4 days it was a light period,expet for 1 day that is not mormal for me. i've been having sex 4 times a week with my bf and he has cum in me every time. my stomach is alittle bigger and my bust too. i've also been really hungry. could i be pregnant?
Posted by: jill at Oct 2, 2006 10:12:56 AM
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Posted by: jill at Oct 2, 2006 10:17:26 AM
i had my period around the 20th of sept. it lasted only 4 days it was a light period,expet for 1 day that is not mormal for me. i've been having sex 4 times a week with my bf and he has cum in me every time. my stomach is alittle bigger and my bust too. i've also been really hungry. could i be pregnant?
Posted by: jill at Oct 2, 2006 10:18:41 AM
i dont think i had my period in the month of september.. but i'm still a virgin. what is wrong with me?
Posted by: michelle at Oct 2, 2006 7:49:26 PM
i dont think i had my period in the month of september.. but i'm still a virgin. what is wrong with me?
Posted by: michelle at Oct 2, 2006 7:49:28 PM
Hi my period is 2months overdue i took a pregnancy test and it came out negative, then i went take one at the doctor and it still came out negative. can u tell me what my problem is. because the doctor told me to come back in 2 weeks and retest
Posted by: nou-nou at Oct 2, 2006 11:32:35 PM
Hi All,
My wife used to get her period in 32-35 days, but the last 2 months was abnormal like her period starts normally on day 1 and then stop for 3/4 days then start again for about 7-10 days.. we visited doctor she says nothing wrong. And this also there was a drop of blood on the first day ( 18-sep-2006) but after that no perion so visited doctor again on 27-sep-2006 she did the pregnant test which turnout to be NEGATIVE she did ultrasound scan and told us that she cant find anything wrong and advised us to do another test 1 week later. we did another pregnant test on last nite(3-oct-2006) again it turnsout to be negative. But my wife has all the symptoms of a pregnant lady. she has back pain, head ache, sore breast, vommit, sleep, giddiness and all...
any one know any clue ././.
thanks a million
Last 2 months
It is being 45 days ago my wife got her last period...
Posted by: kayalsuku at Oct 4, 2006 3:37:43 AM
Hey guys, ok heres my deal, i was supposed to start my period like 2 months ago, but still nothing has come, i have already taken like 4 or so pregnancy test and they have all came back negative. i get lower stomach pains, my back hurts while im at work, and they say that sometimes your boyfreind feels the symptoms and you dont, well my boyfriends get nausia and headaches alot these couple of weeks, COULD I BE PREGNANT ? and if not then what could be wronng with me ? please help !!!
Posted by: Emily at Oct 4, 2006 10:53:30 AM
well heres how i went..im 14 years old...i jus lost my virginity almost 1 month ago...and i still havent got my period but im suposed to get it tha end of each month or tha beginning...and i still havent got it yet...ive been really hungry and sleepy lately and lazy..and my stomach is gettin a lil big...and my mood sings are u usual i guess...but this is wat happened wen i had sex...we used a condom but we stopped and he took it off..then a few minutes later maybe 10 15 minutes later i jus sat on his penis it didnt go insde of me but his penis was rubbing against my vigina...im not sure if it had precum on it or not..if it did can i be pregnant just from our body parts rubbing against eachother?
Posted by: c.c at Oct 4, 2006 9:19:39 PM
i might be prgnant i seen my last priod last month but i feel flutters in my abdomen and my breasts are tender well full and i gained a few pounds what does that mean?
Posted by: Solynthia at Oct 5, 2006 2:01:39 PM
hey yall I had got off my period september 24,2006 and I didnt use a comdom on friday the 29 of september, then i had sex again,and again I took a prenant test today and it came up negative but i got all the sympotise that a pregant women gets someone please help me i suppose 2 start my next period on oct 20 do u think i took a pregant test 2 early
Posted by: brittany at Oct 5, 2006 2:50:16 PM
To all you silly girls out there who are possibly pregnant at 15, do yourself and that poor child a favor and get an abortion. A couple of hundred dollars spent early within the first 3 months of pregnancy will save you and that child a miserable life. There are already enough hungry, poor and unwanted children all over the world that could be adopted. There are also already enough unwanted children who are no longer babies and are sitting in foster care or group homes with not enough people willing to adopt them.
Shame on you stupid girls for having unprotected sex. Use the damn condom. They are cheap and make him pull out with it on while gripping the base. And if he is a jerkoff then don't sleep with him. It doesn't matter how bad or ugly your think you are. Jerkoff guys will do anything to use you and then talk trash about you. Been there done that and I never even slept with the guy at all. I was 17 and this jackass kissed me and that was it. He just made it up about me. Stupid guys are creeps and it's only because they had lousy lame parents who didn't bother to pay attention to what is going in their son's life. Don't fall for it girls. You are better off masterbating with a candle like a nun that having bad sex with creepy guy who just wants to use you or just lie about it too.
Get your lazy oversexed asses in school and stay there. At the very least you need to have a high school diploma and an Associates Degree from community college. That's what I did. I have been working as a secretary since the age of 18. I got married a couple of years ago to a great guy. We dated for 7 years and planned things out. If you can't get a smart guy who is willing to work a job and hand you paycheck, then he is not a real man. Get rid of him. I did whatever I could to not get pregnant until I wanted to. I graduated from community college while working the whole time. I bought my own house and have 2 cars just to myself that I bought. I have good credit and busted my ass to get to this point. I am just now 32 years old and finally pregnant by choice and I was always willing to get that abortion if I got pregnant at the wrong time with the wrong guy. My child will not be some dumb ass looking to screw and risk getting pregnant at 15 or whatever. You shouldn't have kids any way until you are married to someone who you really love with a prenuptial agreement. Finish your school and work to have a decent job. Your child will do better in life and so will you.
If my parents were poor and stupid and thankfully there weren't, I would rather be aborted than have a crappy life. There are plenty of kids already born that need to be helped, sponsored or adopted around the world. Don't add to the population of unwanted, hungry and homeless children who have to live through misery because their parents were too poor and stupid to either use condoms or get an abortion.....especially if you punk kids are messing with drugs, alcohol or cigarettes, they are screw up babies in utero with irreparable damage. Shame on all you irresponsible idiots.
Remember kids, God and Jesus don't help stupid people. You gotta help your self in life and be smart by making smart decisions in life. Learn from other people's mistakes, don't keep making the same mistakes over and over with that whole nonsense of "I wanna learn from my own mistakes" crap. All that attitude does is screw your life up as well as some poor kid who never asked to be born to your sorry ass. Don't be stupid parents. There are enough of them already because they are probably who you call mom and dad. Break the vicious cycle. It's the only way to have a decent future with real money in your pocket and a kid who isn't a worthless loser. Later.
Posted by: Kelly Columbo at Oct 6, 2006 5:22:48 PM
This is my FIRST time taking yasmin, I have been taking it for 2 weeks now. Today my husband and I had sex and the condom was inside me and he had to pull it out. If sperm came inside me could I still get pregant even if I've been on the pill for 2 weeks???
Posted by: prettygirl at Oct 7, 2006 7:31:12 PM
This is my FIRST time taking yasmin, I have been taking it for 2 weeks now. Today my husband and I had sex and the condom was inside me and he had to pull it out. If sperm came inside me could I still get pregant even if I've been on the pill for 2 weeks???
Posted by: prettygirl1 at Oct 7, 2006 7:31:51 PM
OK first off, I am not some 14-15 year old girl, I am well educated on sex, my boyfriend and I discuss everything dealing with the matter. I am in a healthy, mature relationship with a long term boyfriend. On to my issue...My (main) question for any WOMEN(mature, females who have dealt with something similar,) is this...I have been on birth control since I was 16, for irregular periods at first, then as contraceptive. First it was the depo shot, which made me not have my period for about 2 years, so I knew I would be irregular coming off of it. I switched to the ortho tricyclen lo pill to kind of make sure things got back to a somewhat normal schedule. It didn't, so recently I was put on the higher dosage of the pill because my doctor said I probably wasn't getting enough progesterone, I believe it was, in my system. Well things were normal for a bit. Yes I have unprotected sex with my boyfriend, only because it is a healthy, mature relationship, we have been tested, and are at the point where we really (REALLY! on my part:) ) wouldn't be disappointed if I did get pregnant. This past month my period came twice, I think it was my period, but it was dark brown glops, not bloody looking, and had lots of mucousy stuff around it. It looked like my period was made of boogery snot(sorry to sound gross, but thats as close as I can come to describing it). I have taken 2 pregnancy tests within the last 2 months and they have both been negative. I have gained weight in the belly region, that isn't like it usually is. Its more rounded. Is it too soon to start showing a bump? Or am I jsut getting fat? And I am still taking my pills, if I AM pregnant, could it be hurting the baby to keep taking my pills until I find out? I know the docs say to stop birth control as soon as you find out you are pregnant, but I don't want to stop them until I KNOW I am pregnant. I am not due for a period for another week, so I know its too early to test if I got pregnant this month, so I am going to get another one taken as soon as it will work. P.S. has anyone else had that kind of period I described? If so, why is it like that??
Posted by: Amee at Oct 9, 2006 8:15:09 PM
hi i didint exactly have sex with my bf all he did was just put it in me and thats all and he didint come but noe period is late i dont know if its just late because we did it or because of some other reason if any one knows please tell me. me and my bf are worried so much were only sixteen but were just stupid i guess please some one out there that knows tell me
Posted by: illya at Oct 10, 2006 5:21:36 PM
Well i have had sex with my boyfriend like every weekend but last month of sept i didnt get my period . we always use condoms this time we didnt use condom but he withdraw before he came ..but i was still worried that i could get pregnat i havent gotten my period i usually get it like on the 14th or 18 is not always the same dates.. but i have taken 3 pregnacy test over the month of sept and they all said that i am not pregnat is already oct the 10 and i havent gotten my period whats wrong with me..
Posted by: MC at Oct 11, 2006 5:14:19 AM
i start my period this month it is not time for it but in about 6 days it will be but i have been having some unusual symptoms like getting mornig sick eating a lot sleeoing a lot and my stomache is getting big i am scared i am really waiting to see if my cycle is going to come my boyfriend wonts to have children but not right now but if i amn pregnant i would not no how to tell him can you please help me
Posted by: confused at Oct 11, 2006 11:14:13 AM
i start my period this month it is not time for it but in about 6 days it will be but i have been having some unusual symptoms like getting mornig sick eating a lot sleeoing a lot and my stomache is getting big i am scared i am really waiting to see if my cycle is going to come my boyfriend wonts to have children but not right now but if i amn pregnant i would not no how to tell him can you please help me
Posted by: confused at Oct 11, 2006 11:14:15 AM
I've always been irregular even while i was a virgin. I am heavy set. And have been going through a lot of stress related things. From Tearing ligaments in my knee to having a seziure. and Now having my gradmother getting ready to pass away. I havent had a period since August. which was when my last seziure was. They did tests, and it showed Not Pregnant. Then before hand when I went in for work on my knee was July, and that again said Not Pregnant. I took a test a few days ago, and that showed Not Pregnant i'm not showing any signs but not having a period for several months! Could the test be wrong? Its going on now 3months (August, Sept, now Oct; Oct period has not come yet, though it isnt' time) I did have one in July & June.
Posted by: Nina at Oct 11, 2006 10:58:00 PM
Okay.. I am 17 yrs old. here's my story. I was dating this guy named Justin and one day we went to his apartment and had sex, twice. I've never been on birth control but he used condoms. the problem is, I felt like he pre-cummed in me, because we didn't use a condom for part of it. and anyway, that was on sept. 27th, and a week later i noticed that i had missed my period, which is supposed to start on the 6th or 7th of every month. then I started showing pregnancy symptoms. I got dizzy frequently, I felt naesous, I had lower back pain and had trouble sleeping, i was showing mood swings and would be happy one moment then start balling the next. I've had an extreme loss of appetite and my lower stomach has been sensitive as well as my breasts, and my nipples look bigger then they were. also, i have had white thick discharge and i've had to urinate ALOT. i normally go twice a day and i have to go now every couple of hours.
So my best friend bought me a pregnancy test cuz i was too scared to tell my parents. i took one last night and one this morning. they were both negative. however, on the first one, last night, i thought i started to see another line form in the second box, but it went away after 15 seconds or so. and the one this morning was completely negative. Does this mean, that i'm not pregnant? I still haven't started my period and i still have the symptoms that i listed above. they've been going on since the 5th of october.
what should I do?? was the test wrong?? or was it right?? please contact me with answers ASAP ! i'm a desperate teen in fear.
thank you soo soo much!!
~always~
Faith.
Posted by: Faith at Oct 12, 2006 12:00:09 PM
I had sex before my period.. 3 or 4 times unprotected. I got my period a couple days later so I wasn't worried about it. Now, I had unprotected sex before this period was supposed to come.. But he pulled out. My period is late. What are the chances I'm pregnant?
Posted by: Angie at Oct 12, 2006 2:45:56 PM
i have sex with my boyfriend once a day unprotected and on month i got my period 2 time we have been together for 3 months and i have been getting morning sickness and i think my belly is getting bigger i am only 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16 i dont no what to do im soo scared..........
Posted by: katelyn at Oct 14, 2006 9:45:00 AM
i have sex with my boyfriend once a day unprotected and on month i got my period 2 time we have been together for 3 months and i have been getting morning sickness and i think my belly is getting bigger i am only 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16 i dont no what to do im soo scared..........
Posted by: katelyn at Oct 14, 2006 9:45:01 AM
hey guys .. mm me and my boyfriend had sex but it was my 1st time but we did it like 3 times nd he sed he cum on me like 5 to 6 times .. and i wanna no if you think i can be pregnant ??? im ganna get kick out of me house but sould i do ?? im 15 and my boyfriend is 16
Posted by: kc at Oct 15, 2006 9:48:35 AM
Hey i was on the depo provera for 2 years and i have been off it 8 months now but i still havent had a period, before i went on it my periods were irregular and when i was on it it stopped them completly my boyfriend uses protection but not all the time, he wud pull it out but never come in me.. am i pregnant?? i have no symtoms..
Posted by: Nicky Kane at Oct 16, 2006 9:14:09 AM
Me and my boyfriend had sex a week and 2 days ago for the first time. we did it like 3 times... its the 16th of october and it isnt time for me to have my period yet but ive been havin the signs.. like my breast are really sore and my lower stomach hurts like sharp pains and i feel sick and ive gotten dizzy a couple of times. My lower back also hurts like im bout to start but ive never had lower tummy pains or this sor of boobs OR dizziness. I'm gettin nervous waiting on my period to see if ill start i just need to know something ahead of time...! I'm so worried bc my sister just now found out she was pregnant by her bf that left for the army and she just told my family and i just dont think i could handle being pregnant. Please tell me something!!!
Posted by: Kayla at Oct 16, 2006 4:03:24 PM
Best thing to do is go and visit your family doctor to get a blood test done. Your symptoms of dizziness and tummy aches can still me part of PMS even thought it has never happened before. However, the best thing to do still is to get that blood test done as it's much more accurate than anything else.
Posted by: Lea at Oct 18, 2006 1:04:48 PM
me and my bf have sex and he pulls out all the time i just ended my period but i havent felt to good could i be pregnant?
Posted by: brittney at Oct 19, 2006 3:02:37 AM
me and my bf have sex and he pulls out all the time i just ended my period but i havent felt to good could i be pregnant?
Posted by: brittney at Oct 19, 2006 3:02:39 AM
Iv had sex with no condom. and now i havent come on my period, but im having the worst period pains ever, could i be pregnant?
do you still get pains when you are pregnant?
Posted by: Kay at Oct 20, 2006 5:32:18 AM
Iv had sex with no condom. and now i havent come on my period, but im having the worst period pains ever, could i be pregnant?
do you still get pains when you are pregnant?
Posted by: Kay at Oct 20, 2006 5:32:20 AM
i had sex 2 weeks ago unprotected and i came on the week after but it was only little specs and recently ive been feeling sick and i have gained weight and my belly has gone hard could i be pregnant?
Posted by: claire at Oct 20, 2006 6:42:23 AM
OK girls here's the deal.
#1. Use a condom. If a guy says no then you shut your legs. YOU are the one at risk of getting pregnant. It is YOUR life and YOU need to take care of it. Forget about pregnancy for a minute... are you even considering STDs AIDS? That shit is no joke.
#2. If you think you are pregant- Go to the drugstore and buy pregnancy tests. Get at least 2. STOP DRINKING, SMOKING, TAKING DRUGS. WAIT until at LEAST a day after your period is due. Pregnancy tests cannot work accurately before that. I know it is hard to be so stressed but taking it before then will most likely not be accurate. After you've waited, read the instructions and take the test first thing in the morning with your first pee. This is when the pregnancy hormone is best detected. If you get a NEGATIVE but you still don't have your period, wait 1 week and then take the test again. YOU COULD STILL BE PREGNANT. If it is STILL negative and you have no period, go to the doctor or clinic. If you get a POSTIVE you are pregnant. There is NO SUCH THING AS A LITTLE BIT POSITIVE. even if that positive sign is really faded or light, if it is there AT ALL then the test has detected the pregnancy hormone and you'll need to decide what you want to do.
3. Check out Planned Parenthood. They can help with low cost exams, birth control, emergency contraception, give you information and education about sex in general and help you with options should you need them. Their web site is: www.plannedparenthood.com . They have locations all over the country. (US) Don't be afraid to go to the doctor/clinic. They are the only ones who can tell you for sure what's going on with your body and should keep ALL your information strictly confidential.
4. About Pregnancy symptoms Early pregnancy symptoms can often feel like PMS. Cramps, bloating, headaches, breast soreness/tenderness, irritability. You would also start to get these symptoms around the same time. So pay attention to when you are supposed to get your period so you know when and if you will need to take a test. Really, that is the only way to tell if you are pregnant without going to the doctor to take a test there. Take the test. I know it is scary but believe me, knowing is better than wondering. The best way to know you AREN't pregnant is to not have sex. However, if you are on this board, I realize you already are so PLEASE please use condoms and birth control. There are affordable options out there. There's just no excuse in this day and age. I know you are smart enough. Demand respect from those boys and USE A CONDOM EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!
5. BE SAFE! Please, please, PLEASE take care of yourselves and your bodies. Respect yourself and protect yourself.
Posted by: Susie at Oct 20, 2006 4:31:07 PM
Out of the posts on here only a handfull of women have actually had a clue of what they are talking about.
To all of the teenage girls that think they are pregnant: STOP HAVING SEX! You are obviously not ready!!! No guy should tell you he's not going to use a condom, he'll find someone else that will believe me he'll live and his balls will not fall off. Please educate yourselves on the actual ways you can get pregnant and how you can protect yourselves from STDs and AIDS. Did any of you know that you can get CANCER from not treating an STD known as HPV 70-80% of women have the disease and do not even know it, there are NO SYMPTOMS!!!! I found out the hard way and had to have surgery on my cervix at 19. It goes away on it's own for most women but for some, and for myself it had turned cancerous.
For god's sake please, if you are not ready to handle the responsibility don't have sex. You should really do some surfing and search genital warts or try to find a video of a woman giving birth...do you want that in your life now? if you can't then DON'T!!! I can't stress it enough. If you don't want to listen to me please at least go see your doctor or local family planning clinic if you're that worried...don't forget stress all on it's own can delay your period, so stop stressing. your body does wierd things yes but a little change doesn't mean you're pregnant. DO SOME RESEARCH!!!
GOOD LUCK!
Posted by: olderandwiser at Oct 23, 2006 11:22:57 PM
i had sex 3 weeks ago and the condom broke it was the last day of my period but i only hav it for 3 days anyway. i took the morning after pill 12 hours later. i normally have periods every 3 weeks but i am 3 days late although 2 months ago i was going for 4 weeks every time. ehat are the chances i am pregnant?
Posted by: sammy at Oct 24, 2006 7:58:54 AM
Im 15 years old, and i am on the ortho evra birth control patch..But i dont know if it has been affective, i was supposed to get my period this week, but it still hasnt came (even tho i have been having cramps) and today i let my boyfriend cum in me.. could i be pregnant?
Posted by: Jamie at Oct 25, 2006 11:56:01 PM
i feel like im pregeant because my stomach is getting big and i get nasuea very quick and dizzy and i feel like that if i dont eat i gag very loudly intil i get something to eat.
Posted by: at Oct 26, 2006 3:54:12 PM
i had sex like two weeks ago, a week later they started becoming really tender...could me havin sex have anything to do with it?
Posted by: Shonda at Oct 26, 2006 10:39:16 PM
I never have a normal period. I have my period then it takes me a couple of months to have it again. I know im not pregnat because it happens all the time and i dont have sex.I dont know whats wrong,please help?
Posted by: nicole at Oct 26, 2006 11:38:59 PM
I had sex with my boyfriend and I am on birth control but we don't use a condom and he cums but he pulls out first, I am scared that maybe something still got in me. Can you feel it if a guy cums in you? I need to know, me and my friend both have similar probs and ?'s and she needs to know too.
Posted by: Lee at Oct 27, 2006 3:10:52 PM
i have put so much weight on but its just my stomach that is growing it sounds really weird but its the shape of somebody that is pregnat i have been really tierd and off my food but sometimes i find myself eating and eating but its the same things like i am craving for them i thought i was pregnant a while back, took a test and i wasnt my periods are really odd and i never no when im going to be coming on. Please help me and just reply back just to give me an idea of weather to go and buy a teat or am i just being silly,
Posted by: emma at Oct 29, 2006 12:24:07 PM
well it is the end of october and i still haven't gotten my period. I had sex with my ex one last time before we broke up and he didn't use a condom, plus im not on BC. I am worried i might be pregnant. Also my breasts are sore and swollen. Are those signs that i might be pregnant.
Posted by: at Oct 30, 2006 12:16:31 AM
im 14weeks and 2days pregnant the only thing that i cud tell that im pregnant was my periods stopin an my braests hurtin an needin the toilet all the time an cryin over anythin silly but i havnt had morning sickness at all iv felt like i was goin to b sik but i havnt an i havnt really got a bump do u think anything is rong wiv my baby becoz i havnt been sik or nothin and i ad a blood test an it came back reseus negitive so what r the chances of me havin a resus babie an what will that involve if i do
Posted by: jade at Oct 30, 2006 9:59:06 AM
im 14weeks and 2days pregnant the only thing that i cud tell that im pregnant was my periods stopin an my braests hurtin an needin the toilet all the time an cryin over anythin silly but i havnt had morning sickness at all iv felt like i was goin to b sik but i havnt an i havnt really got a bump do u think anything is rong wiv my baby becoz i havnt been sik or nothin and i ad a blood test an it came back reseus negitive so what r the chances of me havin a resus babie an what will that involve if i do
Posted by: jade at Oct 30, 2006 9:59:07 AM
Hello my name is Natalie and I just had a baby in feb my son is know 9 months but this month I had no period but I have a lot brown spotting and crampsand my husband haven't done anything for 2 months because we have a busy work schdule so what is this that is happeing.
Posted by: Natalie at Nov 1, 2006 7:53:11 AM
Hello my name is Natalie and I just had a baby in feb my son is know 9 months but this month I had no period but I have a lot brown spotting and crampsand my husband haven't done anything for 2 months because we have a busy work schdule so what is this that is happeing.
Posted by: Natalie at Nov 1, 2006 7:53:24 AM
my boyfriend and i had sex and then the next day i had my period?its not suppose to come for another 2 weeks?could this mean im pregnant?
Posted by: at Nov 1, 2006 6:33:54 PM
I have not had my periods since january and its now november what could be wrong? Also my stomach has went really swollen and people keep askìng if i am pregnant.
Posted by: Lisa at Nov 2, 2006 7:00:11 AM
HI!! i just wanted to ask the big ??? my last menstrual period was on oct 11 so im expecting it on nov 8... my bf and I have been having unprotected sex on oct 25 he came inside of me 2 times and he did it 3 other times during the month..i have been felling very weird but
sometimes i think it's just me thinking about it too much so thats why i feel like this. But my bf told me hes been felling very naseause and dissy (same as I)i already have a daugther so i just want to know can i be pregnant or is it that im thinking about it to much???
Posted by: Vane at Nov 2, 2006 3:58:28 PM
Reply to this site pls
what are the chances of a person who experience period pains to fall pregnant?
Posted by: sysy at Nov 3, 2006 12:52:37 PM
hi i thought i was pregnant cos i hadn't my period than they came and like 2 days later they were gone now i due for them again normally i get bad period pain but nothin this month my boobs are startin to hurt i feel really sleepy all the time and i've been going to toilet lots last couple of weeks i don't have sex that often but i don't have protected sex but i am on the pill could all of this mean i am pregnant
Posted by: sam at Nov 10, 2006 5:42:43 AM
I've only done it twice this month, but I'm stressed out. Could I be pregnent?
Posted by: Monique at Nov 10, 2006 1:54:58 PM
i am 3 days late for my period and im worried! i should have started on friday, and now its monday. My boobs are sore and im still kind of getting period pains but no period, im scared i may be pregnant, im only 18, i need advise.
thanks
Posted by: jane at Nov 13, 2006 9:21:04 AM
i been feeling dissy lately and very tyerd and i am 2 months late for my ray im only 14 i need advise
Posted by: cala at Nov 14, 2006 5:05:39 PM
i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on friday night...i got my period on sunday..but it is much lighter than usual and didnt last as long as usual, am i pregnant?
Posted by: lauren at Nov 14, 2006 5:26:31 PM
I had took a test and it had 2 lines, the 1st line was dark and the 2nd line was light but it was 2 lines that show.so therefore i am trying to see what the 2 lines mean.dose that mean I'm pregnant or what because my boyfriend is tell me that I am but I don't think so.
Posted by: gwendolynadams at Nov 16, 2006 12:26:26 PM
Girls, you have your whole lives ahead of you...do you know how many men treasure a virgin? They are a rarity in our country. Good things come to those who wait. I promise. Dont do something that will come back to haunt you on your wedding night. You WILL find that perfect guy who loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. And when you do you will be so happy you saved it all for true love.
Posted by: at Nov 16, 2006 7:29:35 PM
oh yeah and i just get real hot sometimes for no reason like when im just sittin around watching tv. Then it goes away and i get real cold. And just one more thing just one of my breast are tender. whats that about my nose is real senstive but nothin makes me gag not any smells that ive been around
Posted by: at Nov 18, 2006 6:36:55 PM
i am 7 weeks pregnant and i was wandering if i should be getting really bad shooting pains through my nipples and breasts????
Posted by: pregnant 16 year old cornwall at Nov 20, 2006 2:41:07 PM
I HAVE A BIG ??? I GOT MY PERIOD 11/3 AND ENDED 11/10 I HAD SEX W/ MY BF ON 11/11 AND HE CAME INSIDE THEN ON 11/19 I MET UP WITH MY X BF AND HAD UNPROTECTED SEX W/ HIM ALSO BUT HE PULLED OUT PLUS HE USES DRUGS THEN THE NEXT DAY 11/20 I HAD SEX WITH MY BF AGAIN AND HE CAME INSIDE IF I WOULD TO BE PREGNANT WHAT ARE THE CHANCES THAT IT CAN BE FROM MY X I NEED YOU HELP PLEASE LET ME KNOW
Posted by: VANESSA at Nov 22, 2006 12:16:47 PM
Ok here's the thing i,m 17 getting ready to be 18 me and my boyfriend have sex every weekend Fridays and saturdays he cums inside of me and its been about a month this has been going on what i want to know is why ain't I pregnant we want to get pregnant sooo..lately i,ve been having cramps and sneezing all the time tired al the time and I have whitish thick stuff coming out of my vagina so what i need to know is is it possivle that i may be pregnant when is a good time to take a pregnancy test? I,d appreciate some avice thanks all.
Posted by: Brit at Nov 25, 2006 5:00:43 PM
Hey, Im Tati. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend three times, and he's gone in me once within the past month. Whats the probability of me being pregnant? I usually get my period between the 5th and the 10th, and last time we did it was a week before my period, would my period still come for that month? or will it already skip? i really need advice!! thanks :)
Posted by: Tati at Nov 27, 2006 8:54:36 PM
hey i have not seen my period in 2 months, i test negative, but i am having a yellow and brown discharge what can that be
Posted by: telly at Nov 28, 2006 9:26:58 PM
hey i have not seen my period in 2 months, i test negative, but i am having a yellow and brown discharge what can that be
Posted by: telly at Nov 28, 2006 9:28:09 PM
hey everyone......... me and my boyfriend are trying to get pregnant but everytime we're done having sex his sperm just runs right out of me and i don't think that normal and its been happening the last 4 times does know why its doing that?????????? and also is there a chance that some of it could have gotten in??????
Posted by: nicole at Dec 1, 2006 5:12:56 PM
hey everyone......... me and my boyfriend are trying to get pregnant but everytime we're done having sex his sperm just runs right out of me and i don't think that normal and its been happening the last 4 times does know why its doing that?????????? and also is there a chance that some of it could have gotten in??????
Posted by: nicole at Dec 1, 2006 5:14:18 PM
hi erm me nd my bf have unprotected sex he didnt cum as he says but liek he says he had like bits before it i did it after my period and like i went to school nd took a test it was positive and on monday im doing another test help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: christy at Dec 1, 2006 5:35:54 PM
well lets see i got my period yesterday which was december 2,2006 and everything was going normal until i woke up the next morning which was sunday december 3,2006 it was about 2:20 p.m. when i woke up and i went to the restroom and my pajama pants where really bloody and the whole bottom part of my underwears where bloody to so i took them both off and my legs where also bloody and i pee'ed in the toilet and there was nothing but blood in there so i was like ok (i was wearing a tampon by the way) i flushed the toilet and took a good shower i threw my pajama pants and underwears away of course but i dont know if it could have been a miscarriage or just a bad flow of my period and i have been skipping months on and off and i dont know if i could have been pregnant and again i had also bleed threw some shorts and basically the same thing happend except not as bad i used the same tampons i always use and that never happened to me before where i got reall ad like it did whenever i woke up so can you please help me and tell me what it is or something if you need more information just tell me what you need to know??!!
Posted by: victoria at Dec 3, 2006 11:47:34 PM
well lets see i got my period yesterday which was december 2,2006 and everything was going normal until i woke up the next morning which was sunday december 3,2006 it was about 2:20 p.m. when i woke up and i went to the restroom and my pajama pants where really bloody and the whole bottom part of my underwears where bloody to so i took them both off and my legs where also bloody and i pee'ed in the toilet and there was nothing but blood in there so i was like ok (i was wearing a tampon by the way) i flushed the toilet and took a good shower i threw my pajama pants and underwears away of course but i dont know if it could have been a miscarriage or just a bad flow of my period and i have been skipping months on and off and i dont know if i could have been pregnant and again i had also bleed threw some shorts and basically the same thing happend except not as bad i used the same tampons i always use and that never happened to me before where i got reall ad like it did whenever i woke up so can you please help me and tell me what it is or something if you need more information just tell me what you need to know??!!
Posted by: victoria at Dec 3, 2006 11:47:35 PM
Hi im really paranoid ive had sex with my bf a couple of times but he has never came in me but could i still get pregnant if he takes it out before coming in me?? pleasssseee reply!
Posted by: Emma at Dec 5, 2006 1:47:50 PM
hi, am 26 years old i already have a child his 7, but my question is, is it possible to get pregnant on the day before your period comes if u have unprotected sex and he ejaculate inside of me?
Posted by: sarah at Dec 6, 2006 12:18:31 PM
Last month my period didn't come on at all but it come on the 4th of this month.Now i'm still having really bad pains in my lower stomach could that be a sign of pregnant? Please help me!
Posted by: hot mama at Dec 11, 2006 2:00:36 PM
ok me and my bf were having sex.the condom broke a lil bit but were no sure when it broke.as soon as he cumed he pulled it out.there wasnt alot in the condom but there was some on my bed.im only 15 andd i cant be pregnant.can u help me !!! :(
Posted by: katie =) at Dec 11, 2006 2:24:22 PM
I haven't had my period, but i am getting brown discharge ALL the time. What is happening to me? i am only 10
Posted by: Layla at Dec 15, 2006 10:54:01 PM
hey, im 24, married and been trying to have a baby for about 5 months but nothing. Now my period hasnt come for 41 days ive done 3 pregnancy tests and all come out negative we have had sex numerous times throughout this and cycle still are but can i be pregnant and it come up negative on the test? or is it just stress? Confused!!!!!
Posted by: rachel at Dec 15, 2006 11:50:50 PM
Re: 10yr old girl
nothing to be worried about. your body is just getting ready for you to start your period. your just an early bloomer. no worries
Posted by: katie at Dec 16, 2006 4:23:50 AM
I had been on the shot for 6 years. I got off of it in oct. 2005. I got my first period nov.2006. Its time for me to get my period again and it has not come.I am having bad back pains, stomach pains and headaches. I have had unprotected sex with my husband. We are tring to have kids. How long should I wait to take a pregnancy test
Posted by: elise at Dec 16, 2006 9:20:08 PM
hello me and my boyfriend r trying to become pregant, how do i become ane wat steps do i need to take , he has came inside me heaps of times and im still not pregant wats a matter with me?
Posted by: amanda at Dec 17, 2006 8:48:16 PM
i hAvent seen A regular period since october 23 2006 i hAve irregular periods aNd on the 26th of november i had spotting for 5 days i cAnt stAnd the smell of certAin foods i feel much tired lately can i be pregnant becAuse i am trying ?
Posted by: shauna at Dec 18, 2006 9:28:41 PM
HEY ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX 9 TIMES IN A MONTH AND I DIDNT HAVE A NORMAL PERIOD,IT WAS LIKE 2DAYZ AND VERY LIGHT ALSO WE HAD SEX WHEN I WUZ BLEEEDIN ALSO CAN I BE PREGNANT?
Posted by: BRIANNA at Dec 19, 2006 4:03:41 PM
ok well where do start... i had a very un-normal period last month... like it lasted 9 days... and then my boyfiend came home and we had un-protected sex... and then i was eleven dayz late... and now i got my period... is it possible that i am prego??? help me plz
Posted by: Lindsay at Dec 19, 2006 9:01:30 PM
it burns and stings when i go to the bathroom after my b/f and i have sex and he sometimes goes for a lil bit with out using a condom then he puts one on could i be pregnant? should i go get checked out could it be serious? HELP ME PLEASE
Posted by: y. durham at Dec 22, 2006 5:59:02 PM
me and my boyfriend had sex for the last time on a sunday and i had my period 2 days later.. But now im due again and im 2-3 days late? Is that possible for me to be pregnant?
Posted by: Carissa at Dec 23, 2006 6:24:34 PM
Please help me. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the last time and then 2 days later, i started my period. Now i am due again and i am 2-3 days late. Ive never been late before am im super scared! Is it possible for me to be pregnant if i had my period then, but am not having it now? Please help.
Posted by: carissagrace at Dec 23, 2006 6:40:38 PM
i didn't have sex. but my before came but after wards he washed his hands really good and dried them. About an hour after that he fingered me but never touched me ti'll an hour or later. i have a week and a half late is there any possible way i'm pregnant??
Posted by: maggie at Dec 25, 2006 3:15:42 PM
My boyfirend had sex with his ex-girlfriend a while back,and we were talking about it and was wondering if he didnt cum...is he still a virgin??
Posted by: Court at Dec 26, 2006 9:42:52 PM
me and my boyfriend had sex 4 days after my period and he came in me could i be pregnant?? please help
Posted by: jessica at Dec 27, 2006 10:52:23 AM
i started my peiod 1 november 7 days later stoped and 2 days before it wasmeant to stop me n my boyfriend fingerd and had sex my breast n my lower stomace hurts i avent had a period since am i pregnat
Posted by: ???? at Dec 28, 2006 1:39:26 PM
Hi im really paranoid ive had sex with my bf a couple of times but he has never cum in me but could i still get pregnant if he takes it out before cuming in me???
Posted by: at Dec 29, 2006 12:57:41 PM
Dear Ladies,
Just wanted to encourage you to say I have been where you are and no guy is worth your purity.. and even though you have made that mistake.. you can start over.. Jesus makes all things new.. if you are pregnant whatever you do please do not consider abortion..there are plenty of good people out there that would love to adopt. As a 25 year old young women who has experienced what your experiencing now.. i have many regrets.. that only brought shame, low self esteem, and a feeling of unworthiness. I never thought i could ever marry .. who would want a used up wounded girl like me.. but Jesus said that he did.. and he died to take away my sins.. he changed me and i can stand and say today that i am pure .. and now i am married to a wonderful man.. who loves and cherishes me for my heart.. God has a plan for you dont just settle for someone that says he loves you yet doesnt respect you.. any guy who doesnt respect who you are does not love you.. I look back on all the guys I THOUGHT loved me.. they didnt love me for me .. they just cared about one thing.. their pleasure. do i wish i would have waited? yes.. definately.. to the girls that are virgins i commend you .. please save yourself..i wish it could have been me..virginity in our culture today is a foriegn word unpopular.. our culture promotes sex.. so much it is ok ( it feels good). Girls.. satan wants to take your selfworth and that is his way of doing it .. STD's are rampid in our nation and remember there is always a consequence to our sins.. The number one man that would love you is Jesus.. and as far as a relationship you have plenty of time.. God will send you a man that loves Him and would make a good husband to you and father to your child one day..when your young and you come from a broken home like me you look for love .. but really i didnt know what love was.. i was starving for it.. God is love the only love that completes you.. and if you go to HIM he will change your whole life. i know it is not the normal thing to do for a girl to go to God!! Yeah it is not popular.. but it is the answer.. quit searching .. He is the answer..!!Let him take control of your life.. and your future dont worry about this boyfriend or what he does for you.. God completes us as women and he created us for a purpose not just for a family but for our purpose on earth.. women are unique.. respect your uniqueness.. love yourself.. the lord and life.. enjoy family.. and dont grow up to fast ..life is fast paced anyway.. enjoy every moment.. involve yourselves in positive activities..things you enjoy .. church functions.. youth groups.. special outings.. and stay away from negative relationships.. there is nothing better than a pure heart.. inner beauty is what counts later on in life.. outer beauty fades.. and but your past is created everday.. make it filled with good things, mememorable moments, and loving relationships.Pray..read your bible and develop your relationship with a father that loves you enough to give his own life in your place. True Love Waits.. purity is the way to go..Elisha Cantrell Jesus loves you
Posted by: Elisha Cantrell at Dec 29, 2006 4:48:23 PM
Look.. I'm not trying to be rude. If you aren't married, you shouldn't be having sex. If that's not what you believe, then look at it this way.. Do you want to get pregnant. No? THEN DO NOT HAVE SEX?! It's that simple. Do not have sex, and you won't get pregnant. I see it time and time again. Young ladies having sex because they are pressured or whatever.. JUST DO NOT DO IT. You have a long adult like to worry about that sort of thing. If you are going to do it. Be responsible and wait until you are old enough to handle the responsibility.
Read the comment posted by Elisa Cantrell on 12/29/2006 at 12:57 PM. She's got what you are looking for. :) Good Luck!
Posted by: Stephanie at Jan 2, 2007 6:21:35 PM
I had sex on probably the 16th of december and we used a condom but im not on birth control so im a bit worried. I usually have a really irresgular period that would never come at the same time a the month before. But then when i started having sex 3 months ago my period began to be a little bit more normal, so lately its been coming kind of close 2 the first of each month, but last month it came on like the 6th and it was probably only because i had sex the day before. So its like the 3rd of jan. right now and i have not gotten it and im really scared, i may buy a pregnancy test tommorrow. Hope its late enough to find out. I dont feel pregnant, and ive been drinking and smokinng a ton so id have 2 get an abortion if i am pregnant but i cant afford it, oh im totally screwed i got into this situation because i was 2 broke to get birth control and now im 2 broke 2 get an abortion if i need one, Maybe i should just keep doing what im doing now, not thinking about it and hoping that it'll all be ok, please dear God let it be okay
Posted by: Stef at Jan 3, 2007 11:54:36 PM
hi, well i missed my period last month and its already the 4th of this month and still nothing, not even cramps, and i took a pregnancy test to see if i was pregnant and it was negative, i dont know what it could be. if you could help me that would be great. ive been pregnant before i have a 4 yr old and so i know what it feels like to be pregnant and i dont feel pregnant.
Posted by: JENNY at Jan 4, 2007 1:32:48 PM
STEPHANIE - JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT GOD YOUR FATHER DOES LOVES YOU AND ANY CHILD YOU WOULD EVER CONCEIVE AND ALL WILL BE OK! YOU WOULD MAKE HIM PROUD TO GIVE YOURSELF TO HIM INSTEAD OF SOME FLING AND WHAT FOR THE MAN HE WAS PLANNED FOR YOU.
Posted by: JENNIFER at Jan 5, 2007 5:13:30 PM
Out of hundreds of posts, about 5 were from girls who were of a proper, mature age and who knew what they were talking about.
The rest of you are complete and total airheaded idiots. Many of you are shamelessly admitting you're 14-15 years old, give or take a few, while having sex all the time. How about instead of wasting your time making your typos and misspellings to post your petty complaints on here, you go DO something about it?
Like the [small number] of intelligent ladies have previously stated, get your pregnancy test done. Always use a condom. It's not fun and games, girls. If you let a guy cum in you even once without a condom, it's nearly impossible for you to NOT be pregnant and you're also likely to have contracted an STD. So quit saying things like, "Oh, my bf cums in me all the time, am i pregnant?!?!lol!!11one!!1" and sounding like a slutface, USE. THE. DAMN. CONDOMS. You KNOW what the answer is. YES, you are pregnant! You don't have some magical protection from all the times you've had sex condomless; like one of the other girls said a while back, you can get diseases that don't even have symptoms. So when you think you're alright, you're NOT as safe as you seem.
Also, I'm begging all of you...please get a bit older so that you're not longer barely out of middle school before you try to screw your life over by literally screwing guys. What makes a girl a slut? Normally you'd say if she sleeps with tons of guys. Well, yeah... but another way to define that is if you're an underage, immature, and oblivious chick going off and having sex like it's some fun game.
STOP HAVING SEX WHEN YOU'RE STILL JUST A YOUNG TEENAGER. You want to end up like those teen moms who have to stay home and give up their entire future to take care of a baby they never wanted? It especially won't be fun when you're not getting any help from the father, because he was as immature as you. Darlings, a guy will sleep with any girl, because they're obsessed with sex. Most of them DON'T C-A-R-E if you get pregnant/get diseases from them, they just want a good time, then they'll ditch you. Don't think they won't, either, because that's exactly what happens to tons of girls. As soon as the girl becomes pregnant/gets an STD, the guy doesn't want that burden, so he ditches her.
Don't settle for that, ladies! Be SMART, protect YOURSELF! You have the rest of your life to find the perfect guy for you, and when you do, you can have an enjoyable and responsible sex life. Don't ruin your chances now, and do your future children a favor- let them be born later instead of now, that way you can give them a better life. Your own life will be full of regrets if you act irresponsibly now and end up with a disease you're stuck with--what if you get HIV/AIDS?!--and have a kid who never grows up properly. Please, be kind to yourselves.
Posted by: Ashley at Jan 5, 2007 7:10:55 PM
i was wondering can i be pregnant if me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex like 3 weeks ago and he was pulling out at the same time he was cumming. i've been having the symptoms of being pregnant but today i cameon my period and i still feel kinda nausea can i still be pregnant.
Posted by: LaShay at Jan 7, 2007 5:18:23 PM
i had my period early last month and late also and now 28 days hasnt goine yet annd i am seeing it again but with pain under my stomach and its jus a lil bit of blood nothing plentiful
Posted by: dee at Jan 8, 2007 2:05:08 PM
i completely agree. i think us as young women should protect ourselves and stop giving these man whores what they want. cause all they gonna do is get what they want and leave you. my period is 3 weeks late and yes i have had sex but i have also been stress out entirely too much once again over some stupid man whore. i have taken 2 pregnancy test and both negative. so i'm jus gonna try to stop stressing so much. this is a lesson learned for me tho. i thought i would never give up sex but i am now. i am not mature enough to be having sex especially with the responsibality of risking having a baby at the age of 17. and for all you girls wondering if your pregnant or not and worryin the way you are i can give you an answer it's called ABSTENENCE stop having sex period and you won't have to worry if your pregnant or not. no girl is mature enough for teen sex. i don't care what anybody says. so just stop all the confusion, stress, and i'm sure problems with your boyfriend and stop having teen sex.
Posted by: at Jan 8, 2007 5:57:38 PM
ok well this is a long story..... ok well i was on BC to regulate my period i was on it for a month i had my period on june 7th and i stoped takin the BC becuz it was too strong and i never went to the DR to get it fixed... well my BF at the time and I was at a party and had no condom well he came in me and on the 19th of june..... well i hadnt had a period since june an di took a bunch of tests i even went to the Dr and had a blood test everything neg. well here it is the end of Dec. and I have sex na dI bleed waited about a week had sex again bleed afterwards and the next day the same and then the next day i had sex and i had a 5 day period I have never start by myself from july-dec and randomally i started on the 31st of dec. well could i have had a miscarriage and never known? and also lets say i was not on BC one of the last times i had sex before my period and he came in me could i be pregnant? my stomach feels funny....and i am having strange cravings for things i dont like.... and my Dr said that it would take a lot for me to get pregant any explainations?
Posted by: Kayla at Jan 8, 2007 11:23:48 PM
Hey me and my boyfriend have sex everyday and i have not had my period in like 2 mts and he comes in me 2 times a day and i eat alot more and i feel dizzy and i get headaches and i HAVE been throwing up and all u kno could i be pregnant i took a few tests but they all came out negative could i be pregnant.?.?.?.?.HLEP!!!
Posted by: Brianna at Jan 10, 2007 5:39:28 PM
hey im 17 and me and my boyfriend have had sex alot without a condom but before the comdon broke so we stoped using them and he use to cum inside of me and i got my period 2 times last month and i got it the first time for 7 days like usally and then i got it for 3 days i have not got it this month can that be a sign that im pregant?
Posted by: Sarah at Jan 12, 2007 1:31:27 PM
I'm suppose to get my period this week coming up, but on this week me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he is sure that he cum in me alittle and we are worrying that I might be pregnant. Am I? Can I take a pregnancy test? Please I must know.
Posted by: areli at Jan 13, 2007 12:53:26 PM
I'm suppose to get my period this week coming up, but on this week me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he is sure that he cum in me alittle and we are worrying that I might be pregnant. Am I? Can I take a pregnancy test? Please I must know.
Posted by: areli at Jan 13, 2007 12:55:20 PM
Hey ladies...
There is no judgement you can place upon these girls...if you chose to come to this site...you put yourself in the position...it is their decision...and their choice if they want to have sex at whatever age they want. Now, they have to be prepared for the consequences of STD's and things of that sort.
When I was 15 I chose to lose my virginity to a boy I was with for a year...and I knew that me and him would be together for quite a long time because likewise we couldn't go a day w/o one another
But since that day we have never thought twice about using a condom..
You do not know who your boyfriend's ex girlfriend's had sex with...
Therefore you have to make wiser decisions and take care of your bodies...becuz it is not okay to get abortion after abortion after abortion...
Think before you leap....
_KimsLove_
Posted by: kimslove at Jan 14, 2007 10:45:40 PM
Hi me and my girlfried have been having some unprotected sex but i have been pulling out bfore i enjaculate i relise she can still get pregnant but she says there is something in her vagine that has gotten realy big and swollen what could this be im am hoping it doesnt mean she is pregnant please help me!!!
Posted by: Mitch at Jan 21, 2007 7:01:47 AM
i had sex this month without using a condom my boy pr-ejaculated inside of me but wen he felt he was gonna buss he took it outt....wen he was done bussing he waited a while then put it bac inn could i bee pregnant? n could a pre cum get me pregnant
Posted by: lydia at Jan 23, 2007 7:52:22 PM
i have to pee every 15 minutes and today my husband and i were having sex and he said it felt different could i be pregnant?
Posted by: Melissa at Jan 24, 2007 11:57:29 PM
i have to pee every 15 minutes and today my husband and i were having sex and he said it felt different could i be pregnant?
Posted by: Melissa at Jan 24, 2007 11:57:30 PM
me and my girl on January 7 (day after she finished her period)tried to have sex..I went and bought a condom.i put it on right after i got hard and then stuck it in once. then she said it hurt so i pulled out...and then i finished my busy because i am a guy..and so i didn't cum in her at all...are there any chances she is pregnent....she started crampping like two days ago and now it is making her sick she is cramping so bad...she is worried so i think it is making her sick just worring...so please gat back at me...thanks
1. what are the chances she is pregnent or do i have nothing to worry about...
please don't make me feel stupid i mean i know there is no chance of it because nothing happened but i mean she is ge